Of course we want your thoughts, dear Brother Tim. We are on the foundation of our faith. The covenants are meat, but conversion is milk that we all must understand.
As usual, we have much on which we agree and that is a blessing, but I learn from the challenge of the things on which we disagree.
Amen! God blesses us when we listen to others when they come with a "thus saith the Lord." You are a blessing to me also. Our subject has a direct bearing on a correct understanding of the covenants, so let us seek to come into unity on what conversion is and what it is not. May God grant us more of His Spirit.
A statement you made challenges my understanding of what I believe to be an essential truth and I would like to explore this with you. You write: ‘when we take our eyes off of Jesus and separate from Him, we must understand that we do not possess eternal life’
I disagree strongly. To me, the wording of your statement undermines salvation by grace. Makes it dependent on my strength of will, my determination.
Let us try and see what your concern is. We both agree that man is saved by grace. None teach this more than I. We are not saved by faith, not by works, but by grace. It is the love of God that breaks the hard selfish heart of man. Satan lived in the full light of the knowledge of God's love. When he sinned there was nothing more that God could show him. But, with man who was deceived about God's character there is hope that through a knowledge of His love he can be reconciled to Him. So, like you, I am fiercely protective of the doctrine of salvation by grace. Let none insert themselves or their teaching in between God's love and the sinner. His love, grace, is the only hope the sinner has.
Brother Ian, I want to use Paul's writings to address your concern. His burden was to present Christ and Him crucified as the answer to our lost condition. He refused to allow man to believe he could be saved by a profession of faith or by "keeping the law" of God. Thus his use of the terms Old and New Covenants. He saw whole generations of Jews lost because they thought they were saved by keeping the law. In fact they did not keep the law as required by God, as Christ pointed out in His sermon on the mount. The law requires correct motives as well as outward obedience. The wages of sin is death. And sin reaches to the intent of the heart.
We must now look at the one who takes his eyes off of Jesus and separates from Him. If Christ is not within, if His Spirit is not indwelling man, then man has no ability to keep the law from the heart. Paul states that "if we have not His spirit, we are none of His."
How can we give life to man apart from God? Apart from God we are carnal, aligned with Satan. We have no power to do good. We will sin. We must be born again daily and we must maintain that conversion the same way we attained to it, by abiding in Christ. He does not take away our free will. It is left with us to hold on to Christ. Our part is guard the avenues of our mind, to behold Jesus, to pray without ceasing.
If we deny our part in working out our own salvation, then we leave man with no part to play in our salvation. Our part is immeasurably small and His part is immeasurably large, but without our part of clinging to Jesus we shall be lost. We must come to Him just as we are. We must choose to come to Him and then we must choose to serve Him. He does not take away our choice. The sealing of man is based upon man's choice, not God's will. When we learn of God we will choose to serve Him and we will pray without ceasing. We will guard the avenues of our mind. Then with Christ formed within, we are partakers of His divine nature and have power to resist all sin. His promise to those who abide in Christ is that He will not allow them to be tempted beyond what they can bear. It is Christ, not I.
We are saved by grace, but ONLY if we choose to be saved by grace. Billions of precious souls for whom Christ died will waste the expensive gift of salvation, waste the grace so freely offered by not choosing to cease resisting His drawing. He is drawing all to Himself. All who refuse to choose to come to Christ will be lost. Only those who obey Jesus and choose to come to Him will be saved. Are they saved by their choice? No, they are saved by accepting the grace offered. Those who choose wrong will be lost.
My deeper objection is the implication in your statement that we can be saved, then lost and then saved again. Heb 6:4-6. ‘For in the case of those who have once been enlightened and have tasted of the heavenly gift and have been made partakers of the Holy Spirit and have tasted the good word of God and the powers of the age to come and then have fallen away, it is impossible to renew them again to repentance, since they again crucify to themselves the Son of God and put Him to open shame’.
I think the problem resolves itself when we do not use the term "saved". Man is not "saved" until he is sealed or goes into the grave surrendered to Jesus. But, man may know he has eternal life when he knows he is abiding in Christ. Why? Because Christ is life. Apart from Christ, man has no life. That is what Paul was teaching when he said "the letter killeth" but "the Spirit giveth life". We need the reality in our hearts in order to have life. No Spirit, no Christ, no life.
Addressing Heb. 6:4,5. When Satan fell away it was impossible to renew him to repentance. With the disciples before Pentecost they did not have a full knowledge of God's love. They were ignorant. Therefore, even though they all had been converted, except for Judas, they would wander in and out of their converted state. When Peter denied Jesus, he did not have His Spirit, and if he had not His Spirit, he was none of His. He learned a lot that night. He better understood himself and He better understood His Lord. His character was strengthened by both. Did he never fall again? He did fall again, but he never "fell away". We will continue along this theme for there is much more to consider that will help us to see that without Christ, we do not have any good thing in us, much less eternal life. But, we ought not despair, Jesus stands at the door knocking when we are separated from Him.

As I said in my last posting, I do not believe in once saved always saved, but to believe in an ‘on again off again on again’ salvation, is equally wrong.
If we reject once save always saved, then we need to come up with something else. Please share with me where you draw lines. If we do not draw a line, then there is no assurance of salvation unless it be by profession of faith.
Again, dear Brother Ian, you are most gracious and a joy to study with. I wish to know your thoughts, as always. This subject we are now on, when better understood will help to resolve the Laodicean condition in our church. There are a number of young people who have been studying their Bibles and the Spirit of Prophecy and they will not follow tradition, but are seeking Christ. Jesus is coming very soon and He wants you and I to participate in preparation for that glorious day!